Mainstream Media Fails

Jessica Conway And Sperm Donor Being Treated Like A Victim By The Media Is The Reason People Read Turtleboy Sports

 

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Last night I was watching the News and obviously they were covering the tragedy in Auburn story. But it was the way that it was framed that pissed me off. Every single news outlet I’ve seen so far is portraying the waste of space birth mother and the waste of space sperm donor as the victims here. All of them are too gutless to point out the obvious truth – this child died primarily because she had the misfortune of being born to a mother who doesn’t love her. Because no one who loves their daughter continues to do drugs and goes to prison. A real Mom fights for her kids. Just look at the headlines you see when you Google “Jessica Conway Auburn”:

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“Three DCF workers unlicensed.” “Foster mom was lazy.” “DCF visited the home four days before child dies.” “Biological mother says she was told her child was safe in foster home.” “Family of dead girl wants DCF probe.” “Parents of dead DCF baby want answers.”

Hey dipshit birth parents – I got an answer for you. Your child died because you weren’t there for her. You were all she had to count on in life and you abandoned her because you’re selfish. You had no idea she would end up in a dangerous environment like this. You had no idea where she’d end up at all. Which was all the reason to make sure you held onto her. But you didn’t because you’re a terrible, terrible excuse for a human being.

You know what all of those headlines have in common? They all fit the birth mother’s narrative that she’s the victim here. You know what no media outlet has pointed out? The fact that the sperm donor was wearing a fucking ANKLE BRACELET when they were whining on TV about what great parents they were.

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How come NO MEDIA OUTLET outside of TBS is pointing out the fact that the mother has started a GoFundMe for no apparent reason? Why hasn’t anyone asked her why she chose $5,000 and what she plans on doing with that money? Seems pretty relevant to me. Because $5,000 just happens to be the standard fee for a retainer for a lawyer. And I will guarantee you that the birth parents are planning a huge lawsuit against DCF. And at the end of the day they saw the death of their daughter as a nice little payday. They clearly are showing no grief, because she barely knew her daughter.

Yet no one – not the Globe, Herald, Telegram, Fox – has the guts to write a headline like this: “Mother who chose drugs and crime over child now blaming everyone but herself for daughter’s death.”

But I guess that’s why you read Turtleboy Sports. It’s the reason our audience is growing and newspapers are a dying industry. Because people are smart enough to see through the bullshit and now there’s an alternative. Stay tuned with TBS for the REAL news on this story.

 

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89 Comment(s)
  • Kara
    September 3, 2015 at 3:40 am

    you people are a bunch of clowns!! how old are you guys? some of you claim to have children and you’re sitting on a website calling each other “ass bag,” “numb nuts” and “shit bag,” amongst other things, LMAO. you should probably get prepared to have a kid on drugs. i mean if they way you represent yourselves online is in anyway you parent you’re child. wow, i truly feel sorry for them!! maybe getting a job and raising your kid would make you not so bored?

  • Deez nuts
    August 21, 2015 at 2:43 am

    This whole website is a bunch of garbage . Fuck turtle boy sports!

    • Kara
      September 3, 2015 at 3:43 am

      i found this website linked from another and what a shit show this “blog” (whatever the F this is.) it looks like its where the rejects of society come to spew hate instead of access their miserable lives. the owner of this site and most of the commenters need mental help. well, i had a good laugh for tonight but i sure as hell won’t be back! 🙂

  • Tommy
    August 21, 2015 at 1:35 am

    I know and previously lived with the birth mother Jessica she also has an older son that was taken away and while I was living with jess she was shooting heroin every day made no effort to get the room together for her son which I did and sadly she chose drugs that time too and never got her son back she stole from my family and myself gave a cop hepatitis c. The last time I saw her 2 years ago this September was the day of my aunt’s wake when she picked me up to go get high at this point I had begun my sobriety every person that I know has negative things to say about her not to mention her mother shoots heroin with her while Jessica’s father drinks and takes pills all day they aren’t good people I agree that she shouldn’t get a penny no person should feel sorry for her because the opportunities she had in the past to see her children she made no effort in she is just trying to get her 5 minutes of fame as she is a drama queen I feel heartbroken that her daughter passed we need to keep the children out of the hands of mom’s like Jess and also take a much deeper look where we place these children to live a safe happy life away from the junkies

  • coffeemate
    August 20, 2015 at 6:48 am

    Did it ever occur to anyone that…age left the home to go to the store prior before incident. They seized the car and now reports are saying the child in critical condition has bruises consistent w a car accident? ?

  • Jill
    August 20, 2015 at 6:42 am

    Apparently Jessica has been reading TBS. She has suddenly issued a gag order on her family regarding press interviews. And for all of the commenters posting on here with common sense and developed brains (sorry that does not include you Casey and your 50 other screen names) that nasty piece of trash actually had the audacity to say “it reminds me of how good a mother I was to Ava”. How’s that puke with your toast?

  • Jennifer
    August 19, 2015 at 5:48 pm

    I don’t think Turtle boy is ignoring any part of this sad story. He’s merely focusing on a single aspect of it. Thereis enough coverage of what little is available on every other news outlet. Fact of the matter is that no one even knows what happened, yet everyone is so eager to pass judgement without that knowledge.
    What we DO know is the birth parents are making spectacles of themselves in the media. I watched their news interview and it made me sick. They don’t seem genuine and are clearly trying to cash in on the tragedy. If not, why would the memorial for little girl, at her home, made by caring neighbors who were actually watching her grow up sicken them? They should be grateful for the outpouring of sympathy and prayers for their daughter. That memorial is for the baby, not the foster mom. What did she want them to set one up at her house?

  • Brandon
    August 19, 2015 at 4:33 pm

    Unless she is using this for a treatment program that she stays in, Go Fund Me should shut that shit down- ridiculous isn’t even the word. This is the electronic version of the panhandler standing on the street with a sign and a needle in their arm, because they’re down on their luck.

  • Hitman1975
    August 19, 2015 at 9:56 am

    This poor child went from parents who cared more about drugs to a parent who cared more about the money she’d make off her by taking her in. And she paid for it with her life. That’s the sad truth about this case. My question is where were the so-called grandparents in this whole thing. My wife and I have 4 adult children and 3 grandkids and let me say if 1 of our kids was messed up with drugs or whatever and our grandkids we’re in any kind of danger whatsoever the first thing we would do is try and get them out of there and into our home. NOT LET THE STATE PUT THEM INTO SOME STRANGERS HOME. What a shameful legacy these families have.

    • Really?!
      August 19, 2015 at 12:25 pm

      My thoughts exactly! Where are the Maternal/Paternal Grandparents? Any Aunts, Uncles, Cousins? Blame can’t be put on one person. Sadly, many people contributed to Avalena’s passing. She didn’t have a single person in her corner. Now a second child is fighting to live. Absolutely tragic.

  • casey
    August 19, 2015 at 8:05 am

    Oh I’m sorry, DUTY. Yes, it is a parent’s DUTY to take care of their child. Obviously. What is DCF’s duty? I would think it would involve placing children in a safe environment, not cramped subsized housing with 6 kids. Yes the parent’s failed that child but so did DCF. Jeremiah Oliver, the boy in Hardwick, & now Ava. They’re falling through the cracks.

  • strata
    August 19, 2015 at 7:40 am

    I started reading TBS for the 1st time months ago …… There is not a day that goes by that I don’t click on the site. I’m hooked. Love how TBS tells it like it is ……

  • Jim from Holden
    August 19, 2015 at 5:39 am

    People, calm down. The birth parents will get a settlement. Then they’ll overdose. I can guaranty it. The DCF foster mother won’t be harming or neglecting anymore children that the state has taken the responsibility for. End of story.

  • Mark
    August 19, 2015 at 2:15 am

    Turtle boy you let me down on this one. You lost site of the big picture. Dcf dropped the ball on these kids again and more kids are dead and suffering. People grieve in different ways, some keep to themselves others do it publicly. Others cry and others do not we are all different. That’s what makes us human beings. And to bash these people that has Lost a child for ever due to another’s negligence is pretty shameful. I see things from both sides. I don’t know all of the logistics of these two “parents” but to throw insults and judgement around after a loss like that is pretty low. I have been on both sides of the fence and how you keep putting some one down who is try to recover or work a program doesn’t give them a chance in hell to improve. I didn’t always make the best choices when I was young. Me and my wife had our first child while we were still in high school. My wife was a angel and i was a punk for a few more years after my daughter was born. I fight with addiction everyday, but we had another child when were done with school married at 19 and we were together for 25 years till she passed away. We were always judged and put down for how we started and how i was in my younger years. We worked hard owned 2 business and a home raised 2 wonderful children. And I still have to fight for what I have because of the way I was when I was young. People judge on how you were not how you are. I’m not saying these 2 people are perfect bit show some class that I know you have turtle boy

    • Judyb
      August 19, 2015 at 8:12 am

      Do you still feel so positive about the birth parents after reading today’s T&G article?

      No one is bashing how they grieve. I do have a problem with turning this into a fundraiser.

      It is good that you apparently pulled it together.

      However, this is going into the “don’t judge” and “all choices are equal” territory. It is sad sometimes, but we really do reap what we sow; even if people “turn their lives around,” there may be consequences.

      When people has a history of bad choices, bad behavior, when is the timeline drawn about “yeah, this person is still making ‘bad choices'” versus “he/she has turned it around.”

      BTW, Turtleboy – I think in your poll, the choice should have been “the birth parents,” not just “the birth mother.”

  • August 18, 2015 at 11:55 pm

    Planned parenthood products.

  • August 18, 2015 at 11:53 pm

    Let’s pray she gets her tubes tied,and sperm donor gets a vasectomy.

  • Bri
    August 18, 2015 at 10:47 pm

    At this point your the only local news I take seriously. The one and ONLY victim here is this Avalena. In her short life she was failed by so many. FIRST and foremost her parents. If it hadn’t been for their failure to protect her she wouldn’t have been let down by any of the rest (the foster mother & DCF). Such a tragic, tragic story.

    • Jim from Holden
      August 19, 2015 at 5:48 am

      Bri has it right. The domino effect here… The birth parents, strike one. DCF putting this poor angel into an unsafe environment, strike two. The foster mom not doing the job she was entrusted to do, strike three.

      I hope Avalena’s death is the last tragedy we hear of for such a young child in this terrible game of life.

      But it won’t be… Sadly….

  • Nanny
    August 18, 2015 at 9:44 pm

    I feel bad for the kids

    • Morgam
      August 18, 2015 at 10:20 pm

      What kid the one that died because of foster mommy dearest or the other baby that’s in the ICU at UMASS that is not jessica conway’s baby there is another family everyone can torture

      • RJ
        August 18, 2015 at 11:29 pm

        Is the other family begging for lawsuit money? Was the other family taken out of the picture because the parents are druggie criminals who went to prison? Maybe. I don’t know, because they aren’t on the news making outrageous claims blaming everyone but themselves.

        If you draw attention to yourself, you open yourself up to criticism. You know where the other parents are? Me neither. Maybe they’re at the hospital, praying for their child to pull through. I like to imagine they are, but I’m willing to give them the benefit of the doubt either way. This skank? Yeah, she’s not. She’s not grieving her child. She’s not destroyed by it. She’s out doing interviews and raising money for a get rich quick scheme on the taxpayer dime. She doesn’t deserve the benefit of the doubt, because there’s no doubt.

  • L
    August 18, 2015 at 9:14 pm

    Turtleboy says it exactly like it is.. Way to keep it real.. Keep up the great work exposing the truth..,

  • Jim
    August 18, 2015 at 8:44 pm

    So these dirtbags start a fundraising campaign “to get to the bottom of this”.Why not raise money to give your daughter a proper burial.Oh I know why you didn’t give a fuck abot her then but now you can make some quick cash.Please put a fuckin bullet in your heads.

  • Local legend
    August 18, 2015 at 8:43 pm

    I heard a rumor that are RBG will be defending this crackhead losser mother in court. RBG would make a great lawyer for this loser mother they both have the same values and morals. Zero.

    • Morgam
      August 18, 2015 at 10:18 pm

      Okay so she’s is a loser but none of you have said anything about the foster mom so she should get off Scott free what fuck are you ppl thinking this other lady kim malpass was using the system and none of you care. No one is going to give the mom any money ok that’ll get settled 2 years from now it’ll go to a memorial fund or maybe to her brother. But there’s a second baby who could possibly need that money because she’s in the ICU / at UMASS right now struggling to live nice for you to care what a joke blast off about a drug addict mom that was already proven to be unfit by the state along time ago shes not the issue foster mommy dearest is so sick stick up for foster mommy!

      • What in the...
        August 19, 2015 at 4:47 am

        This article isn’t about the foster mother and the circumstances of how one child is dead and another in critical condition. It is about a woman who considered DCF to be her babysitting service, demanding anything, much less accountability.

        Accountability starts in her mirror. She failed her child. Her gofundme account is all you need to know for what her motivation her is. Disgusting.

      • Judyb
        August 19, 2015 at 8:24 am

        ” but none of you have said anything about the foster mom” – trying reading the comments again – I had a lot to say about foster mother, or more specifically, the DCF choosing her to be a foster mother.

        Face it, there are no shining stars we’ve seen so far in this story.

        Reminds me of the story 6-7 years ago about the baby cut from its mother in Worcester; the further you looked into the story, the more convoluted, messed up and on the fringe of society each person involved was. There is a whole segment on the fringe of society, that those not on the fringe can’t believe exists, and those on/near that fringe accept as normal (and want to defend with don’t judge”).
        That is not a judgement, that is an sad observation.

      • Really?!
        August 19, 2015 at 10:36 am

        What’s your obsession with Foster Mommy Dearest? Clearly you’re close to the Trash Bag Mommy. I’m reserving judgement on her until they release COD. No not Call of Duty, CAUSE OF DEATH.

        • Really! Really!
          August 19, 2015 at 1:10 pm

          I just like organization so I just separate all the scum bag’s in this story with their own title! Your Friend’s with the foster mommy. That’s why you can’t say anything about what an awful job she did she also choose to do Fostering as a job and was grossly negligent! No matter what comes out -You’re Welcome Basic B.

          • Really?!
            August 19, 2015 at 5:05 pm

            I’m sorry, I totally thought this article was about the BIRTH MOTHER. You know, the one holding Press Conferences and starting a GoFund Me account. I’m reserving judgement on your home girl till I know her scumbucket deal. Basic Bitch OUT ✌

  • August 18, 2015 at 8:28 pm

    i honestly beleive if you are collecting benefits, if you are a drug abuser, if you give birth to a child you cannot take care of, you should be required to have long term birth control. Every year you could be reevaluated. It would save alot of government money and a great deal of heartache for these poor children whose life is one catastrophe after another

  • casey
    August 18, 2015 at 8:19 pm

    Obviously it’s a parent’s right to take care of the child, and yes they failed, no debating that. But so did DCF. Yes, they are clearly over worked and under staffed, and something should be done about that because these kids are falling through the cracks. The child is the victim here, but the child was in the CARE OF DCF.

    • Jill
      August 19, 2015 at 6:41 am

      Casey SHUT UP. Its not the parents “right”-its their goddamn DUTY. My god you need to just stop posting. You have the RIGHT to free speech, but you do not have to utilize it! You have the right to remain silent, but you do not have to. Get it? DO YOU GET THE DIFFERENCE????

  • Jean Popik
    Summergal
    August 18, 2015 at 8:17 pm

    Turtleboy, you put all of the thoughts that I had listening to that lousy excuse for a birth mother and piece of scum baby daddy last night. While it is true that DCF needs to get its shit together, that poor innocent child was put in harms’ way when she had the unfortunate fate of being brought into this world by that asshole who ultimately chose drugs over her child. The guilt lies squarely on her shoulders. In my opinion no child should be released to a birth mother’s care if she has a history of drug use unless she is long-term proven clean. Kids born to drug-addicted mothers have numerous issues going forward. I have personal knowledge of a couple who fostered and ultimately adopted two siblings. One turned to drugs and the other is an abusive relationship. Sad story for sure. No sympathy for those two asshats.

    • To summergal
      August 19, 2015 at 12:12 pm

      No sympathy for the two ass# children you know one who chooses to be a drug addict or the other one that is being abused and likes it! We’re would you like these children to go if not with the parents. You said they shouldn’t go home with the parents yes I agree but where to a safe place right? Like kim malpass’s home!

  • Turd Cutter
    August 18, 2015 at 8:09 pm

    It’s about time the government be on the hook for parents who do drugs and give up the custody of their kids! I’m sick and tired of government’s that have the excuse “but it’s your child, why can’t you raise him or her”. I’m done!

    Government, you need to start being more responsible for your citizens! Enough is enough!

    • Kbella
      August 19, 2015 at 7:45 am

      I really hope you’re being sarcastic…

    • Really?!
      August 19, 2015 at 10:31 am

      No, parents need to be responsible for THEIR OWN KIDS. Plain and simple.

  • Marie
    August 18, 2015 at 8:01 pm

    I can’t believe I just wasted time reading this. So judgmental. All your articles are shallow, narrowinded assumptions. It’s annoying.

    • Marie Jr
      August 18, 2015 at 8:10 pm

      Thanks for your input Marie. Very insightful.

      • Marie
        August 18, 2015 at 9:01 pm

        Turtle Boy is all over social media.. It’s hard not to read these articles!! But if you’re looking for something insightful- it certainly won’t be here on turtle boy..

    • Really?!
      August 18, 2015 at 8:11 pm

      Soooo why do you keep reading them?!

    • JudyB
      August 18, 2015 at 8:54 pm

      NO, you know what is “annoying?” People not taking care of their children, people not taking care of their responsibilities, people having such LOW STANDARDS that it is perfectly wonderful that an unmarried mother (with possibly a boyfriend shacking up with her) with three children already, living in public housing, presumably with no job, no spouse (again, boyfriend/father to 2 of the children) , is considered hunky-dory for taking in three MORE children.

      What else is annoying? Total acceptance of illegitimacy (birth parents, foster parent/her boyfriend).

      Oh, also “annoying”- people starting fundraisers to pull an OJ and “go after the real killers” so to speak. Seriously,a child DIED and right away the parents start FUNDRAISING?

      Judgmental? YOU BET! We need more people to point out right and wrong. You can judge ACTIONS without judging the people.

      (BTW – Notice I didn’t judge the birth parents who being addicts. I didn’t judge them for having the child taken away. )

      Oh, and let’s be a little annoyed and judgmental about a system that thinks it is fine to place children in a home where 60 police calls (some due to crimes reported against the foster parent) took place. Seriously? Let’s place children in a high crime, low income housing complex with one other adult (maybe two?) and a total of six children.

      The other thing more disheartening abut this story is all of the T&G comments (and here) saying don’t judge. Get some standards people!

      • Marie
        August 18, 2015 at 9:06 pm

        I wasn’t disregarding the actual story.
        It’s horrifying..

        I was referring to Turtle Boy’s articles- as they have hardly any evident facts.. Just him talking trash about families and things he knows very little about..

        • JudyB
          August 18, 2015 at 9:21 pm

          “Evident” facts? Did you mean “relevant” facts?
          TB does sometimes have article a little too quick to point fingers and not always with correct facts. However, what facts do you not see here that you would like to have?
          A lot of things are up in the air, but the birth parents setting up fundraising has been reported elsewhere.
          Same for the foster mother’s low income housing, total # of children; I was wrong about her probably not having a job – I do recall she was doing some work for DCF involving doing clerical work (but again- doubting this is a job one can support 6 kids on).
          There are also the police reports, DCF just recently visiting, etc.
          “Just him talking trash about families and things he knows very little about..” – so, are you saying only people who are heroin addicts, involved with DCF, procreating out of wedlock, on public assistance and/or wearing ankle (monitoring) bracelets allowed to comment on this story?
          Again,

      • Morgam
        August 18, 2015 at 10:03 pm

        Only one of the children was jessica conway’s baby the other 2 were other people kids the other baby in UMASS /ICU is someone else’s baby so everyone believes foster mommy dearest couldn’t say I can’t take another baby it was 3 different placements! Foster mommy only saw $ and didn’t care if it was too much so she’s better lol if you get the cops at your home 60 × in 7 years about 10 × a year and brakes down to oncelebrate a month and you think that’s normal yes anyone like that is doing something!

        • Really?!
          August 19, 2015 at 10:29 am

          Wow darling. Just, wow.

  • mimi
    August 18, 2015 at 7:41 pm

    casey, the truth is a cause of death has not been announced. no one knows why the child died. it is tragic. it is the media crucifying the foster mom. the parents had not made an effort to see the child in a year and the grandparents weren’t any better. dcf has a policy of trying to place children with relatives before going into the foster system, why did no relatives qualify to take the child. no one from the biological family gave a shit until the child died. it was my impression too that the media is making the birth parents the victims. the victim is the child who died and until a cause of death is announced people need to remain unbiased.

    • Morgam
      August 18, 2015 at 9:51 pm

      Really I got the impression the news agencies we’re using the biological mom knowing she isn’t in her right mind being that she is probably/ was newly somber for 10 Mos and just had her daughter die at a foster parents negligence all for ratings everyone knows someone like that is going to say and do foolish stuff! Nice job team foster mommy dearest! Hey there’s another mom at UMASS who’s 2 year old is in the ICU you can torture!

  • Jeanette C
    August 18, 2015 at 7:40 pm

    Casey, Turtleboy is right, the biological parents need to take responsibility for what happened to their child, if they really cared about this little girl, she would never have been put into the custody of the state and put into a foster home, and the state needs to admit they are wrong for using unlicensed caseworkers, who obviously are not doing their jobs properly and they are allowing people that are unfit to become foster parents……there needs to be a law where foster parents need to be checked out with the local law enforcement agencies wherever they have lived before they are approved to become foster parents along with the background checks and whatever else they need to be checking out…………no one on public aid or in government housing should be allowed to become foster parents – that is just crazy, if they can’t afford to take care of their own family, what makes the state think they can take care of foster kids????? And the foster mother obviously had no business taking care of others children, there s plenty of blame to go around for the disasterous events that led up to this little girl’s death and another child in the hospital in critical condition, DCF definitely needs an overhaul to its agency and policies need to change……

  • Really?!
    August 18, 2015 at 7:39 pm

    Casey, clearly you have no concept of what being a MOTHER is. When you birth a baby it’s YOUR responsibility to nurture, feed, clothe, raise, cherish etc. To blame DCF is infuriating. They are seriously over worked, and in my opinion, under paid. How about people start taking accountability of their own actions. Do you know how the baby died? No. So, in the nicest way possible, Shut theFuck Up.

    • OkayReally
      August 19, 2015 at 12:51 pm

      Lol goes right to spelling errors “Basic Bitch”

      • Really?!
        August 19, 2015 at 4:57 pm

        Hahahaha you’re funny

  • casey
    August 18, 2015 at 6:44 pm

    This is disgusting. Turtle boy, you clearly have no understanding of addiction. DCF is supposed to find SAFE homes for foster children, therefore THEY are the ones at fault. The bio parents obviously had their issues but that’s irrelevant. So every kid in DCF custody should be subject to conditions where they could be harmed, because their parents need to work on getting sober (or whatever the issue is)? It’s a government agency that obviously needs to get their shit together. This isn’t the first time it’s happened and won’t be the last. Yeah, the parents made mistakes but everyone involved is affected by this fucked up system. Shame on your for making assumptions and judging people you have never met. You must be perfect. Damien, right?

    • Da Fahq U Say?
      August 18, 2015 at 7:23 pm

      Hey assbag, how did the kid die? Oh you have literally no idea? Let’s jump on the blame DCF band wagon. The only thing that could have prevented the entire thing is this junkie bit and her scumbag bf not being hunks of shit…

      • Morgam
        August 18, 2015 at 10:29 pm

        Lol nice response ass bag all I can say you think Foster mommy dearest wasn’t using the system oh ok so someone that has the cops at there home 60× that’s normal to you! It doesn’t make anyone think this foster mommy was using yeah ok in noway does she sound or look clean ok . She never should have had those kids! Okay your welcome

    • tammy
      August 18, 2015 at 8:01 pm

      Seriously. …….this child would not have been in the system if the mother….and or father…step up to the plate…….and no there is no excuse in the world for an addict….they chose to start using drugs…they chose to live that life……yes they became addicted…but remember this the parents chose this life…..that poor innocent child did not……so here’s my question…..they were in foster care because the parents were unfit……and no family member step up to the plate……then a state agency steps in!!!!!!!!

    • Casey Jr
      August 18, 2015 at 8:05 pm

      Yes, it’s the government’s fault that they had a child, decided to give her up, and do drugs instead. Thanks for explaining this Casey. Seriously, I appreciate the explanation and reasoning behind your response. Hopefully they sue DCF so we can ALL be on the hook for it.

      Wheww… I almost thought TBS had a point. Thanks Casey!

    • Tim
      August 18, 2015 at 8:23 pm

      Ahhhhh pretty sure TBS summed it up blame everyone but the mother also I would like to point

      • Tim
        August 18, 2015 at 8:29 pm

        Out that if I was a DCF worker and had access to the fucking 60 police calls I would probably pay a visit or two… Secondly this poor innocent child dies because some hideous monster thinks she can have babies and run her home like a fucking puppy mill!!!! Wake the fuck up you fucking ground pounding do gooders she was 2….

        • So Confused
          August 19, 2015 at 5:09 am

          Here’s an idea- don’t have a baby if you can’t even take care of yourself!!! I believe the point this article is trying to make is that BOTH of these criminal, drug addicted, crusted lip people failed to care for their child and are now being treated like heroes. My Nana always used to say “if you lay with dogs you’ll get fleas”. Well here are their fleas- when you can’t put your child before drugs and they are taken away from you, you sort of take a giant risk. Period. I’m not defending DCF or the foster mother however, I’m damn sure NEVER going to defend these two bums. Anyone who donates a dime to them is moronic.

    • Tim
      August 18, 2015 at 8:43 pm

      No she brought this child into this world numb nuts it’s no ones responsibility but hers…. If addiction is the issue then get help turn the angel over to Someone who has the IQ higher than a fucking chipmunk and this story would have had a different ending and I’m sorry you feel that when someone fails as a parent than we should blame addiction???? I am so fucking disgusted with posts from people who want to blame addiction to hideous crimes such as this one …. Imagine if she was addicted to loving her children would that be a sickness????

    • Erin
      August 19, 2015 at 6:16 am

      Do you know how the system works, why don’t you become a foster parent and help children guess not you would rather sit around and blame the system when there are not enough places for these children to go. You don’t know the circumstances around why the police where called.

      • Whatabouttheotherbaby
        August 19, 2015 at 11:09 am

        Actually Erin it’s easy to find information just Google the names foster mommy’s Boyfriend is a criminal she hid from DCF and all the reports Auburn police had on file and they released them from a report of rape to assault and battery , domestic’s ect…

    • Jill
      August 19, 2015 at 6:30 am

      Excuse me CASEY, but their drug addiction is the most relevant part of all of this. That baby would NOT have been in DCF care if they weren’t crackasses. No DCF custody=a living breathing baby still! I hope to god you bore no children! Shame on YOU for trying to spin this. What’s your friend Jessica doing on this fine Wednesday morning? Plotting her next cash windfall?

      • Whatabouttheotherbaby
        August 19, 2015 at 10:58 am

        Jill you are really weird I just think it shold be fair don’t talk about bio mom if your not going to talk about foster mom so how’s your Friend Kim malpass doing on this fine Wednesday morning planning to injure another child! The state came out with an update on the other 22 month old child that’s not jessica conway’s baby! Poor baby is in “Dire” condition at UMass and has been fighting for her life for 5 days! What about her- jill what excuse are you going to bring up for kim if the second little baby dies god forbid! States attorney isn’t going to use terms like “Dire” if the child wasnt severally injured!

        • Jill
          August 19, 2015 at 2:43 pm

          I could give a fuck about that foster mother or the egg donor. Get off the internet-your crack pipe is waiting. This is an article about the trashy bitch that ruined her daughters life–not the trashy foster mother. Keep changing your screen name though–NOBODY has caught on yet. Shhhh

    • An etymologist here
      August 19, 2015 at 3:30 pm

      People can overcome addiction. They have to really want it. If she couldn’t care for her child because she couldn’t overcome her illness thdn she should have done right by that baby girl and put her up cor adoption so she could be part of a stable home and not stuck in the system.

      The bio mom was and is selfish. The system sucks but it is all we have. The foster mom sucked, clearly. It isn’t unfair for the moms. The only victims here are the children. They have sick, immature, selfish parents and as a result enter a deeply flawed care system

      I could say so much more but what’s the point when it falls on deaf ears who expectthe government to fix something we as a society should be doing something about.

      People can point fingers and place blame but unless you are actively doing something to try to help these poor children then your nothing but an opinion and as the say, opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one.

      Keep calling em out TBS. But, how about a blog on how we can do more to help those kids.

  • An etymologist here
    August 18, 2015 at 6:40 pm

    You tell it like it is Turtle bro. As always you keep it real. Thank you.

  • Shan.
    August 18, 2015 at 6:23 pm

    I love you turtle boy!!! Real shit!

    • Morgam
      August 18, 2015 at 9:31 pm

      What about the foster mom okay so your okay with the police being called 60× to this chick’s house, Your okay with her boyfriend who has a extensive record living with her not telling DCF your okay with the fact that not 1 but 2 babies were injured and that one died you don’t care a but that other baby struggling to live in UMASS right now! All you care about talking about is the mom who’s a drug addict way to take the heat off foster mom!

      • Jim from Holden
        August 19, 2015 at 5:25 am

        Morgasm, Maybe the police were there so much because of they bad apples in foster care? If this lady had an open door for foster kids, it’s very possible that she needed to call the police when the troubled one’s staying with her were acting up. She can’t discipline them herself, per DCF rules I imagine.

        The foster mother is clearly very responsible in the death & injury of those in her care. The point I think all the hater’s are making about the birth mother is she is all-of-a-sudden a grieving mother. Why wasn’t she grieving when she the state took her daughter away? Right she was a drug addict. We get it. You know why I don’t do drugs? Because I have a family to provide for. The safety and security of those I helped bring into this world are the most important things to me. I’m not worried about where my next fix is coming from, I’m worried about my children and making sure they are happy, healthy, and grow up to be wonderful, caring human beings.

        • Krissy
          August 19, 2015 at 10:41 am

          “Auburn police released details of more than 60 visits to Malpass’ homes – all three of which were inside the same public housing complex – since 2005, according to Auburn Police. The purpose of those calls included reports of rape, assault, threats, 911 hang-ups, sick person, vandalism, disturbing the peace and domestic disturbance.”

        • Whatabouttheotherbaby
          August 19, 2015 at 11:21 am

          So every kid in foster care is a bad apple Jim so what about the other 22 month old in “Dire” condition she must have been one of your bad apples you speak of! Listen to Jim talk himself up Father of the year! Then you should care about the other baby who is in ” Dire” condition but you haven’t said anything about the foster mom and her criminal boyfriend who has charges pending and foster mommy has only been a Fostering for almost a year come on you know if you were in charge of taken care of 3 babies a choice you made in about a year 1 would not be dead and another baby in Dire condition who could die!

      • Shara
        August 19, 2015 at 4:01 pm

        I don’t believe any adult in this situation is innocent the only ones innocent are those poor children and yes I do agree the birth mother got the child taken away cuz her setup choices but its dcf fault cuz these idiots think they can take children from their homes and stick them wherever they want and dont bother looking into where they put them. Don’t comment since you have no direct idea on how dcf ruins peoples lives I was beat as a child cuz of them.

      • Sharon
        August 19, 2015 at 5:23 pm

        I blame the parents to start…….and DCF who thinks it’s ok to place little children in a home where the police have been called 63 times. Disgusting. Unfortunately, it’s those that run DCF who agree to all this. It’s not the poor social workers who start out at about 12 bucks an hour with a degree. They have to follow the supervisors and mgt of DCF. This isn’t anything new. The social workers who actually stay in their jobs become cold hearted towards the kids. It’s a job, nothing more. I had my ex hubby call DCF then called DSS on me because I had the nerve to buy my two children, then 7 and 9 bunnies for pets. He told them it was unsanitary. And they sent a DSS worker out to interview me, my children and check the cleanliness of my home. Another friend of mine recently was called on because of excessive laundry. And they almost took her children away. The whole system is out of whack. The kids that need to be followed and placed in a safe place aren’t, yet those who are being called on by vindictive others are. It makes absolutely NO SENSE. Time to get rid of all the mgt, supervisors that run the show and stop blaming the poor kids, just out of college who made the mistake of thinking they might be able to help kids in need.

    • Morgam
      August 18, 2015 at 9:34 pm

      You all thing foster mom wasn’t doing some drugs I’m saying if the cops go to your house 60× in 7 years about 20× a year and brakes down to more than 1 time a month your doing something okay !

      • Jill
        August 19, 2015 at 6:27 am

        Impossible to take you seriously. Break! Brakes are in a car. I have had the police at my home 4 times just this summer! We called them because of assholes speeding down our 20 MPH road and damn near taking out one of my kids. Do those 4 visits from the cops make me a bad mother? Do YOU know why the cops were at her home? There is blame to be passed out to everyone involved in this case, but it STARTS with her biological breeders. I refuse to call them parents-they are not. They are scumbags through and through. That 5k is going to go towards the fines that both of them were given at their arraignments. LOSERS.

        • Krissy
          August 19, 2015 at 10:40 am

          “Auburn police released details of more than 60 visits to Malpass’ homes – all three of which were inside the same public housing complex – since 2005, according to Auburn Police. The purpose of those calls included reports of rape, assault, threats, 911 hang-ups, sick person, vandalism, disturbing the peace and domestic disturbance.”

        • Whatabouttheotherbaby
          August 19, 2015 at 10:42 am

          So you call police and have them come to your home everytime someone speeds by your house! What ever happened to taken a license plate down and just calling it in! Omg yeah get your kids out the road and stop wasting your police departments time! Lol that’s what happens if you live on a major route okay. But what about the boyfriend with an extensive record does your boyfriend have cases pending like foster mommy?

          • Jill
            August 19, 2015 at 2:37 pm

            I live on a private dirt road, furthest thing from a major route. Defending myself to internet trolls (I knew i shouldn’t have taken today off). When my neighbors had issues for this very same reason (a show horse was run down) the local police advised that WE, the neighborhood, call and report it. Its basically the only thing THEY get to come out for here. So yes-I take pride in my neighborhood, I paid a fucken fortune to live here and yes, I will call the police any goddamn time I want for whatever goddamn reason I want because I don’t want my neighborhood to go to shit. I’m married with children (such a concept these days)–and my husband is a US Marine and busy dodging RPG’s– so he doesn’t have much time to get a criminal record. BTW–I love how you keep changing your screen name, but your ignorance is following you.

        • Whatabouttheotherbaby
          August 19, 2015 at 11:33 am

          Jill jill calling police all the time for speeders if they haven’t stayed on your street to catch speeders they don’t care your one of those annoying people! All you have to do is get the license plate if you can’t do that then what do you think there gonna put a BOLO out on a car you gave a description on lol can’t take you seriously even the cops cant! Get your kids out the road or DCF will get called

          • Really?!
            August 19, 2015 at 12:09 pm

            You’re. Holy shit. Is it that hard to spell??

          • Jill
            August 19, 2015 at 2:25 pm

            Actually-shit bag, I did get the plate number. You call police-they tend to show up. My kids are legally allowed to ride a horse on our road–without almost being run down by a shitbag. And when pieces of garbage from other towns come tooling down my road without any consideration for the signs to slow down for kids and horses–your damn right I’m going to complain. We moved here to get away from entitled pricks in low riders.

    • Morgam
      August 18, 2015 at 9:37 pm

      So your all saying foster mom was wasn’t using drugs if cop’s go to your house 60 × in 7 years about 10 ×a year brakes down to one time every month she had to be using something people don’t live that way

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