Followup On Dudley Woman Beater Pat Cote: Girlfriend He Nearly Killed Is Back With Him Because She Can’t Control What Her Heart Wants

Followup On Dudley Woman Beater Pat Cote: Girlfriend He Nearly Killed Is Back With Him Because She Can’t Control What Her Heart Wants

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Last week we wrote about a Dudley scumbag named Pat Cote whose girlfriend accused him of viciously assaulting her while she was driving a car:

A million people messaged us about this scumnugget after we did. Apparently he viciously attacked a couple other people in the weeks before this incident, but at least those victims had Y chromosomes. Although it’s safe to say it’s not the last time he’ll punch a defenseless woman. It’s just what you do when you’re a three inch choad of a Dudley wangsta. We are told that there is a warrant out for his arrest, but not sure what the charges are.

Anyway, this story gets very sad but it’s important to tell so that victims of domestic violence can see how dangerous it is to stay with these kinds of people because you “love” them. She’s apparently back with him:

And according to Facebook she has chosen to be with him over her children:

Because Pat Cote’s homoerotic appeal and $70 gas money is just too much to resist.

But it’s OK because “there will always be just one your heart goes to” and “you can’t control it no matter how much you wish you could.”

This girl is a victim. Let’s just make that perfectly clear. She’s suffering from battered woman’s syndrome. She’s probably blaming herself for this and ignoring the advice of the people who care about her the most.

But she’s still making a conscious choice to be with a waste of oxygen animal who will spend a good percentage of his life incarcerated, instead of being with her kids. If you know where they’re at call the cops. This animal needs to be caged.



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15 Comment(s)
  • Caitlin
    July 14, 2017 at 9:23 am

    Thank you Turtle boy for creating a discussion on Domestic Violence. 1 in 3 women will be affected by DV. It seems like something that only happens with people like this scumbag but it affects all socioeconomic backgrounds. Before people reply with more victim blaming to make themselves feel better that it could never happen to them, think about how scary this guy is and imagine trying to get away from him. 70% of the dv attacks occur when women are leaving. Sadly, the courts can do little with current laws so women go for safer choice. Also, id like to reply on the points about how this woman can’t see her kids because she is with him. So I agree DCF should take kids away while she is with a dangerous man, but did you know that DCF backs out of the picture once woman leaves with her children but court systems will eventually reward unsupervised visits to abusive parent? Research it. A man can beat the mother of his kids in front of them and then after an expensive court date, drive off alone with them.
    My number one fear in leaving my crazy ex was that he would be alone with child. I stayed because at least I knew where he was and felt I could control his nutty. I’d rather sleep next to him than not know where he was. Two years after leaving, even with a guilty of a&B and evidence he was abisive to past girlfriends financially, mentally, emotionally, and physically the courts have their hands tied and need to “respect his parental right”
    Sorry for ramble, but I think it’s fucked up.
    The laws need to be changed, but first people need to talk about the silent epidemic of abuse.

    • Another one
      July 14, 2017 at 10:29 pm

      I don’t believe DCF is involved as the father is very active in the children’s lives and can take them if need be. It’s sad that she hasn’t been able to see them. I just hope she recovers from the surgery, gets her kids, and life back on track. But mostly, I hope she gets rid of this douche nozzle. He’s not good for any woman.

  • Abusers don't change
    July 13, 2017 at 4:06 pm

    I also was involved in a huge domestic violence situation attempted murder on myself. It was so hard to get away but I finally did and when I did he moved on to his next victim… The woman had a car a house a child everything she lost it all and became an addict herself. He then also tried to choke her to death so he had two attempted murders he served six years in prison. I have a permanent restraining order on him and it’s sad to say he just got out 2 months ago and is already engaged. Woman please do your research on who you’re dating and find out who they really are what they tell you is not what it really is. I don’t believe he will ever change and I really feel bad for her and her child because three strikes you’re out and I hopeful this time you’re not the third strike and he actually hurts you. Women beware Google your current boyfriend.

  • Bessie
    July 13, 2017 at 7:35 am

    It’s okay. The cops are hot on him after he was screwing around with the Captains daughter. I hope he has a good hiding spot. Lol he should pray he doesn’t get state time for whatever other charges he probably has. People like him don’t get treated very well, can’t be a wanna be there. Kids a joke. “What are you in for” … I’d pay to hear his response.

  • Berkshire TurtleRider
    July 13, 2017 at 6:22 am

    If she got beat like that and goes back to him, she deserves what ever else she gets going forward. If she’s lucky next time he’ll just kill her.

  • Baron Von Douchebag
    July 12, 2017 at 10:04 pm

    Look, it’s pretty well known. Pat Cote was caught up in a Charlton Service Plaza sting when he was underage (16) with an older dude in the fall of 2016. It was a Craigslist thing, vice bust between State PD and the locals. The other guy (truck driver from Montana) got busted down for solicitation and the usual shit and Pat was shook off the case as a minor but some of the people in the know on this case weren’t exactly quiet, and it got back to some of the Kilby Street shit heaps that Pat was trying to integrate himself with. Pat’s been working overtime to try and rehabilitate his reputation as something other than a rest stop geisha boy and he’s taken it pretty far. Promise you this is all on the radar of DA and chicky girl shouldn’t get comfortable with Pats right hook or his orientation. MCI Shirley is on the horizon and he’ll be holding the soap and taking orders.

    • Irrelevant information
      July 13, 2017 at 4:56 pm

      If 2016 was last years and pat is over 21 how was he involved in some underage shit last year?
      Where do all you people even get your information from

      • Caitlin
        July 14, 2017 at 8:54 am

        The court systems are slow

  • Doesn't matter
    July 12, 2017 at 9:58 pm

    Honestly? This is so stupid. I heard from someone she hasn’t even seen her kids because of all of this.. feel bad for them.. this pat kid needs to get his head knocked in a few times. Seems like a super douche if you ask me. Her however, she’s got a reputation of her own. Regardless of that, domestic violence still isnt okay even if the person it’s happened to is a shitty person..

  • July 12, 2017 at 3:30 pm

    Pat didn’t show up to his court date yesterday. Go figure…

  • SturmHund1488
    July 12, 2017 at 2:33 pm

    Wigger trash

  • ChrisInShrewsbury
    July 12, 2017 at 2:27 pm

    South County is such a fucking wasteland.

    July 12, 2017 at 1:44 pm

    stop blocking out her name. turtleboy has never given a fuck about how anyone is treated before, why start with this bitch? so “battered womans syndrome” is a thing that you understand but you cant understand addiction? this blog is really going downhill lately. noticing lots of contradictory statements, theres too many writers with too many different opinions. its gonna be funny when someone gets mad enough to turn this blog into a lifetime movie. going to extreme lengths to find out who you all are and then exposing you worse than you ever exposed anyone else. because lets face it, if you were all such great and perfect people with nothing to hide, you wouldnt be hiding. now go ahead sheep… thumsb down my comment. because thats what turtleboy would do.

    • msheadkracker
      July 12, 2017 at 2:33 pm

      Hey dumb ass, most of the writers have publicly given their real names, where have you been? Who cares who writes it anyway, making physical threats or showing up at their house will get you arrested, just shut your mouth and either read it or move the hell on.

    • Nahhhhh
      July 12, 2017 at 3:34 pm

      ^Partly agree. A good deal of the “victims” lately are usually all scumbags too. Btw…this “victims” dad was a woman beater and a thief as well. Courthouse records, absolutely disgusting.

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