Pat Cote From Dudley Gets Away With Breaking His Ex-GF’s Face While She Was Driving Because The Victim Is Not Pressing Charges

Pat Cote From Dudley Gets Away With Breaking His Ex-GF’s Face While She Was Driving Because The Victim Is Not Pressing Charges

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So this Facebook post came to our attention after a number of people sent it to us. It’s from a local woman in the southern Worcester county area, whose name we have left out of it:

Obviously we can’t hide her face so her friends will know who she is. But she posted it on Facebook and lots of people sent it to us, so it’s fair game and had to be reported. Not because we love drama, but because the ex-boyfriend who did it is likely going to get away with his crime. That’s because the woman pictured above is choosing to not press charges. It’s actually very common that this happens. There are a variety of reasons why.

What we do know is that she sustained these injuries from him while she was driving, allegedly because he saw something that was texted to her. She will need surgery, and he will be getting away with it. At least legally. But if this asshole doesn’t get exposed for this he will do it again to the next girl that does something he doesn’t approve of. Domestic violence is a cycle. And the people that think it’s OK to beat women don’t stop after just one victim. So even though this woman is choosing not to press charges, we can’t sit silently by and allow this shitstain to walk freely amongst us.

Anyway, we picked up from several people in the comments that the guy who did this to her is Pat Cote from Dudley. He’s a real winner.

If he looks familiar that’s because he is good friends with Josh Crombie and the rest of the Webster hoodrats who attacked the Webster Police, got their asses beat, and then whined to NECN about how mean the cops were to them. We blogged about them here. That’s Pat with his Mad TV boy toy Josh Crombie in a totally un-homoerotic pizza brodown:

Here they are working on their burgeoning rap careers while comparing underpants they just purchased at Marshalls.

As you can see, things are going just great for Pat right now:

The true sign of junior hoodrat success – a topless picture covered in $90 and two nips of cheap booze.

He’s mastered the art of the hardo selfie

And of course the bathroom selfie

I remember my first cigarette.

Pat generally has a lot of respect for women:

His biggest accomplishment thus far in life is passing the MCAS:

He’s totally not gay

He’s no stranger to getting locked up for using his fists to solve problems

He likes robbing people

He’s looking to settle down with a girl, just no a high school girl:

Because high school girls have Dads who will press charges against you if you punch their daughters in the face.

Punching things is generally what he seems best at:

See that shit at the end there? “I love you too.” That’s the kind of nonsense that keeps domestic violence going. Meaningless words like that from dangerous assholes. “I love you too.” When they say those words it makes them feel validated when they punch the person they’re saying it to. It’s OK if he punched her, because he loves her. And if he just keeps saying those words he can get away with anything. This is what love looks like.

Just two weeks ago he was bragging about what a changed man he was:

Yea, old Pat Cote would’ve caved a guy’s face in. Now that he’s got a great job he’s strictly punching women.

Oh, and whatever you do DO NOT call him on the phone:

He wouldn’t like that.

So yea, the police might not arrest this chudstuffer because domestic violence fucks with women’s heads. But that doesn’t mean he gets to get away with it. This is why Turtleboy exists. To expose pieces of human garbage like this.


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38 Comment(s)
  • Diane Woods emerson
    July 6, 2017 at 4:32 pm

    Isn’t that her left eye? If she was driving wouldn’t he hit her right eye first? I am once again , so confused.

    • July 6, 2017 at 8:47 pm

      Its a mirror you fucking genius

  • Ralph
    July 6, 2017 at 11:13 am

    Pat Cote is the reason we need a retroactive birth control pill. What an ahole!

  • Dirt Winston
    July 5, 2017 at 10:46 pm

    After looking at those picture, it seems that these guys are looking for a career in gay porn!

  • whatevuh
    July 5, 2017 at 9:11 pm

    Hanging your pants around your ass in prison is telling them you are down with getting it up the ass . . . just sayin’

  • TurtleBook
    July 5, 2017 at 8:00 pm

    Do you think given the fact that this douche has such a checkered past that the phone # is still his, 4 years later?

    Kind of stupid considering you just posted what is likely an innocent person’s phone number for harassment. I’m on your side but Jesus, try and be responsible.

  • Friedman Frood
    July 5, 2017 at 7:38 pm

    Patty Cote is obviously a repressed homosexual.

    Look at all his bro pics, no shirts pants down, pressing bodies against one another, buttocks and genitals exposed in thin underwear while embracing one another.

    A girlfriend drives him to violence a constant inescapable reminder of what he is and isn’t. Subconsciously she is the source of his problems he is not attracted to women and can’t accept what he is attracted to.

    The ridiculous tough guy routine trying to convince himself he’s a real man and not addicted to salad tossing and catching tea bags in his mouth.

  • Nemo Me Impugne Lacessit
    July 5, 2017 at 7:10 pm

    I believe I know this person; he looks familiar. Ah yes, now I recall we prepped together at Phillips Exeter. I believe he was on the squash team and wrote for the Exonian. A fine fellow indeed!

  • Wabbitt
    July 5, 2017 at 6:45 pm

    Why am I not the slightest bit surprised that he hangs with that alpha douche Josh Crombie. I guess shit tends to cluster together in the septic tank that is Webster and Dudley.

  • Ryan
    July 5, 2017 at 6:27 pm

    This guy is a serious loser … Who does that to a female !? Him and his super gay pizza orgy smh .. He was probably someone’s bitch in jail and probably treats girl’s the way his boyfriend treated him in prison ! His mom and dad must be so proud ! LOCK HIS ASS UP !!! GIRL U OUT HERE LOOKING SERIOUSLY IDIOTIC ! THIS SHOWS HOW WEAK AND INSECURE YOU ARE ! FIGHT FOR YOU’RE SELF !! PUT HIM BEHIND BARS ! I CAN’T FEEL BAD IF SHE ALLOWS THIS THEN PUTS IT ON FACEBOOK !

  • Dummy
    July 5, 2017 at 4:25 pm

    Here’s more about this shitbag, he’s got a court date coming up for beating a kid til he needed surgery and had seizures. The fight happened because the victim was with Pat’s ex at a bar. The ex gf filed a police report and statement against Pat. So this genius starts banging his ex again, and she’s a real beauty and trying to not co-operate with the police now. He’s a real genius, thinking this will save his ass. Oh and btw they’re looking for him for another incide. I just wish this woman would file charges and this tough guy would see alot more time.

    Hope you like prison you shit bag have fun til your court date 7/11. Let’s see if your hardness works in there.

  • Maggie the Cat
    July 5, 2017 at 4:13 pm

    Everybody involved in this situation is a loser, including the girl and all of Pat’s friends. If the girl’s not pressing charges, make her pay for the surgery. If she doesn’t want to pay, make her press charges — BEFORE she gets the surgery. Why should taxpayers pay for the girl’s problem when she doesn’t cooperate with the authorities?

    This is harsh stuff, but it’s the only way to get through to these fucked-up fools. Of course if this was my daughter, Pat and most of his friends would go on a longgggg vacation somewhere no one had ever heard of. After a couple of years no one would even remember them. Or at least no one would dare even mention that they remember them!

    • Dummy
      July 5, 2017 at 4:20 pm

      Andddddd you’d be in prison. You must be really dumb, and stop trying to look down on people that you know nothing about. We don’t know anything about the victim but I don know that unfortunately lots of women don’t file charges in these situations. But then again we’re not all badasses like you, and can’t make people disappear, lol what a dummy.

      • yoname
        July 5, 2017 at 9:30 pm

        “stop trying to look down on people that you know nothing about.”

        Ding, ding, ding – Does that qualify as “Only God can judge?”

        Appearance says a lot – domestic violence issues aside, this guy takes pictures:
        1. of his half-naked , no shirt, butt-in-underwear-hanging-out-of-pants self, rubbing up on another guy = gay
        2. making obscene gestures = angry, rebellious
        3. tatted up (esp. neck tattoo) = rebellious, neck tat= criminal/wannabee
        4. double diamond earrings = gay
        5. flat brimmed hat = need I say it?
        6. nip bottles and twenty dollar bills all over his shirtless chest = looks like a turned-over trick

    • July 5, 2017 at 10:59 pm

      I agree with you Maggie up to a point. The girl is a victim and she could be trying to save her own life, and that is her mentality, and that’s the reason she isn’t pressing charges. Serious, these guys manipulate and condition their victim long before they start physically abusing them. They are socios control freak OCD super religious about most every aspect of their lives and careers etc…. they learn all your relationships and make you think badly of everyone your friends with. Make you stop associating even with your own family members. Theirs a psychology component to these types of people, and unfortunately even the brightest girl wouldn’t see it coming or happening to them. Sociopath = deceptacon (in real life)
      Theirs no doubt in my mind that my ex killed a person. I think they need to inflict fear, hurt, kill to feel alive. Theirs no doubt many of them get away with it and pull it off or plant it on another and get away with it. They’re very good with money, and good at scamming it from others, usually the opposite sex, like sugar mommas, ,sugar babies, cougars, and will even resort to being with another man and being gay to make a buck if they want something bad enough they need to purchase! They’re very skillfully and never without. They are extremists too, and flashy but act shy or coy. It’s an act to win over their victim. Everyone in relationships with these people are the victims. Even their own relatives, who are also deceived into believing all their lies. These women need to go to a psychotherapist and relearn to love themselves that they’re worth it, and their families love them no matter what and get away from these kinds of abusers because they’ll attract and seek the same type of abusers if they don’t. Which repeats the cycle!! Also children of these relationships end up becoming abusers even if they were never victims of abuse, monkey see monkey do, and kids are monkies and will do it too!! That should be every woman’s reason to leave the relationship with an abuser
      and do whatever it takes to stay safe. Unfortunately the law says they can protect us with a piece of paper but truth is it doesn’t. These monsters need to be cuffed and carried away into serious mental rehabs or treatment facilities to reprogram their logic because unfortunately they were also once upon a time witnesses to what they’re repeating. It’s all very psychological. Usually broken families, usually commit 3 or more crimes by age 13 years. thier are certain key factors for a person to be considered a sociopath, but these are the worst ones who always get away with it. He’s convinced this young lady that’s he’s a scarey man, and he will hurt her. We’ve seen that by these pictures and her lack to cooperate. If the law needs the woman to participate they should help her by protecting her during the entire process especially during the proceedings but even during the investigation period. The minute a woman files a restraining order or harassment prevention order, and the abuser is served, she is in a very vulnerable and unsafe position. Her very life is more likely to end because that paper alerts the abuser that the victim went to the authorities for help to bring him down and attempting to take away his freedom…. think about that. A control freak sociopath who has everything he ever needs is about to lose his freedom and power to do as he pleases for that period of freedom loss… that’s enough to make these types of people kill their victims. They threaten their victims. They will kill their victims if their victims don’t agree not to press charges.

  • hhh
    July 5, 2017 at 3:53 pm

    i dont live from Dudley. i can sucking stand pussy ass men who beat women. i wish i will run into him and give him the same beating he gave her. ill show that dude how hard a guy from springfield will be.

    • Common Man
      July 5, 2017 at 4:05 pm

      From the looks of those Fagfest pics I’d say he’d be looking forward to seeing how hard a guy from Springfield would be………or any other town for that matter. These fags sicken me…….

  • Bessie
    July 5, 2017 at 3:48 pm

    So happy i hit him when and all his “cool” “tough” friends attempted to JUMP my boyfriend who was sitting IN a car telling his friend he was too drunk to drive. Such trash. Lol I hope they get a dose of reality.

  • Boogerstain JD
    July 5, 2017 at 2:50 pm

    Commonwealth does pursue the charges but the problem is, if the victim is uncooperative, then usually the evidence isn’t there to support a guilty. Only when the state has enough independent evidence (other witnesses, a recording, anything other then the victim testimony) they will move forward on this type of charge. Now all the internet lawyers will say but but what about the pictures online she posted? Well, evidentiarily, someone needs to lay some substance, basis,context and the circumstances of them. But what about the facebook postings (written), well there kind of heresay but they could come in to impeach a lying witness, credibility purposes etc. But guess what, we have a very much needed form of alterative justice here, the turtle. The reason the turtle is so popular with Cops, DA’s, lawyers etc. is it offers some form justice when the court’s cant or won’t (emphasis on the latter). :p

  • Imstrappednow
    July 5, 2017 at 2:16 pm

    Notice these kids flashing 3’s in their photos. That’s a Kilby St sign. Maybe Pat and Crombie are pushing drugs for them in the Webster area. No secret they deal drugs out here. Maybe that’s why the girl is scared to talk?

    • Fuck women beating wiggers
      July 5, 2017 at 2:38 pm

      More than likely he’s just a wannabe wigger that thinks he’s hard and won’t flash that sign around real gangsters

      • Imstrapoednow
        July 5, 2017 at 3:09 pm

        Crombie is known to associate with Kilby. Idk about Pat. Thank Josh for some of the gang activity in Webster as of late.

        • Patricia Kotex
          July 5, 2017 at 7:55 pm

          Gang? what a bunch of sissies who’s their leader Richard Simmons? Looks more like the local chapter of NAMBLA

    • MrSmiley
      July 5, 2017 at 3:07 pm

      Crombie is on the books who cares. Other one not sure. Little errand boys in jail.. Same applies outside. There are a ton of resources for domestic victims, if she doesn’t figure it out now I hope she does soon. Some don’t get second chances. Look at the one who got killed in Malden recently.

    • Dramamommas
      July 5, 2017 at 3:11 pm

      And a young mother hanging around with drug dealers and Kilby St people. Yikes.

    • Jj
      July 5, 2017 at 6:22 pm

      Your thinking way to far into this. He’s like eighteen.

    • Torin
      July 5, 2017 at 6:29 pm

      3’s are a Boston sign that has been thrown up since the early 80’s. It represents 2 things. First Boston as the thumb and pointer finger are placed to form a B. And second. It three fingers are for the 3 stripes on adidas. Something these young punks no nothing about. But see rappers like slaine and many other Boston born rappers doing. Either way these young punks need a beating and to be taught how to respect women!

  • City508
    July 5, 2017 at 2:10 pm

    He rally needs to keep his shirt on. What a skinny fuck!! I would love to meet this punk ass and beat him to the ground. After that I will snap photos to share. Skinny fuck wannabe gangster. What a joke for a skinny puke.

  • Pussies beat women
    July 5, 2017 at 2:09 pm

    Doesn’t the commonwealth pick up the charges if the victim does not want to go forward? I always heard that but IDK. I’ve heard that the victims rarely want to press charges and the prosecutors are tired of seeing these people go free.

    • TbFangirl
      July 5, 2017 at 4:46 pm

      Yes they do, I didn’t show up a couple times (family
      Members are also considered domestic) and the cases still went forward…but it makes the case weak when the victim won’t make a statement and especially if they won’t testify.

  • Noseface
    July 5, 2017 at 2:09 pm

    The state charges him, not the victim. She may refuse to cooperate with the investigation, but he will be charged regardless. But either way, fuck him.

  • All set with domestic idiots
    July 5, 2017 at 2:08 pm

    Whats up with these little girls loving the wanna be hoodrat white boys? Bunch of morons….she doesn’t want to press charges thats on her. Better start saving money for your casket when he eventually caves your skull in and gets away with it. Even then you still wont press charges, but that m.a.c. will work wonders for the bruises during your wake.

    • Dramamommas
      July 5, 2017 at 2:54 pm

      She is a young mother, not a little girl though. Terrible either way.

      • yoname
        July 5, 2017 at 9:15 pm

        “She is a young mother” – More reason to say away from these hoodrat morons.
        BTW – It stinks she won’t press charges, but can somebody explain…can’t the police press charges anyway? Or is it a matter of being harder to convict without the victim’s testimony?

        • July 5, 2017 at 9:43 pm

          In Massachusetts, the commonwealth CAN proceed with charges IF they have enough circumstantial evidence to try the perp without the victim. The victim can also be excused f m participating in court proceedings but has to be willing to speak to the victim witness advocate at the court house. At least that was the case when I had issues of this kind with my ex. The system doesn’t protect the victim. Retstraining orders make these guys more aggressive to their victims. My ex had me jumped by 4 people I never met, and pretended to care who did it, when he was the one who hired them to make me a vegetable. So that I wouldn’t be competent enough to raise my child and he would be off the hook for child support! The victim witness advocate sucked and never helped me I had to retreat on pressing charges or my x would have killed me and gotten away with it because the law is rigged for criminals. maybe he got away with everything he ever did because he used the addict card. Your honor sir, I suffer from drug abuse….. he even forged rehab documents to get away with more serious crimes he committed…. the judges need to wake up and stop treating addicts like poor little children who know not what they do. These people make a conscience decision to use drugs knowing the consequences! At least my ex did and he always used it as an excuse and got away with crimes such as attempted murder, armed robbery with a dangerous weapon, etc the list is long, talking 40 +pages of criminal record and this kid only served 2 years in prison because he was caught on video camera! Every other crime he committed he got away with because his cousin is a tattooo artist and could paint nasty bruises on his face to make it seem like he was beating others in self defense! He even got away with giving me shiner once because he scratched his neck and told the cops I choked him, when I told the cops to check the skin cells under his finger nails to prove my innocence the police told me that they only do that on tv…….. so yeah, the system is totally rigged for addicts and criminals, no joke! More women end up dead after they press charges or takeout restraining orders and this is a fact so don’t knock on the girl for being scared because it’s a very real feeling to feel alone and not even the law can save your life and you know it the second that person abusing you, violates a restraining order, and is in your car, or house, place of work, etc…….

          • Ash
            July 7, 2017 at 10:11 pm

            He would’ve been a piece of shit addict or not

        • itsjustme
          July 6, 2017 at 8:01 am

          It would be a waste of money. I once served on a jury of a man accused of assaulting his wife, we knew he was guilty but unfortunately had to find him not guilty. There is not much you can do when the victim gets on the stand and says it never happened, even when others say it did. It’s just the way the law is written. It’s been 10 years since that trial and I always wonder how many more times he’s beat her since.

  • MrSmiley
    July 5, 2017 at 2:02 pm

    Not enough bullets in the world for guys that beat on women.. Throw in the fact he’s a thief and a wannabe badass that hangs w the Crombie clan. Just another Worcester County shitbaaag.

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