Sasstacular Mother Allows Son to Throw Rocks At Seagulls On The Beach, Gets Angry When She Is Being Recorded By The Man Who Witnessed The Attack
Want to advertise with Turtleboy? Email us at [email protected] for more information, and check out our website about types of advertising we offer.
Summer is here so it’s time to hit the beach, get a tan, and put your tootsies in the sand. It’s a time for relaxation… Unless you are at a beach where it’s completely acceptable to harm seagulls and when being called out for it, you act like a New Jersey housewife on crack…
Here is the video. It was captured after the incident:
If you make it to the 30 second mark, you can see her son is contemplating whether or not he wants to use his chair to hit the guy recording the video. His cousin who was standing off to the right (who you can’t see in the video) must have said something to him because he walked over to her, and he can be seen shaking his head and holding the chair. That cousin then takes the chair away from him. What a nice temper her son has! Can anyone guess where he gets it from? Nah… No idea. You know what a good mother does? She corrects her child if something like that happens. Not this mom!! Her and two of her cousins completely defended his actions and blamed it on Autism!
What? Amazing how she came up with a total different story. She eventually stops mentioning it because she knows it’s bullshit. This guy was not threatening anyone, nor was he throwing rocks at Seagulls. If he was, why would he be so angry if someone else was doing it? The guy is clearly upset about the seagull being harmed, I highly doubt he was doing the same thing. If he was threatening this woman’s son, the mother would have contacted authorities, especially after he made this Facebook post. None of that has happened.
I’m not a Doctor so I can’t say whether or not this boy is on the spectrum, but what I can say is the mother should have corrected the behavior. She advocates for harming animals when she doesn’t correct it. Parents fight for the right for their child with Autism to be treated equally, and this is exactly the end result of that. Being on the spectrum is difficult. People who have Autism view the world completely different. Mom could have avoided this entire situation if she said, “My son has Autism, he did not mean to harm the seagull, don’t record me, I am his mother, I will correct his behavior” but instead, she acted like she was more concerned with being recorded, and less concerned with addressing a behavior that she knows may happen because of him being on the spectrum.
I wanted to write this blog because I am against parents using the “Autism” label unless the diagnosis is truly there. I can’t say whether or not she is lying, and I won’t go there. I’m speaking from my personal experience. I have witnessed many people self-diagnose their children, and when that happens, it takes away from the validity of a child who is properly diagnosed by a specialist.
Living with a child who has special needs is not easy, particularly when you’re out in public and your child has behaviors that many people can’t understand. You’re under a microscope because people will judge your child since Autism is not something that shows any physical attributes. With that being said, a parent who has a child on the spectrum is already aware of certain behaviors they have, and they know how to combat those behaviors, and they are always aware of what their child is doing.
My question is, where was the mother when her teen son was throwing rocks in the sky? Especially when the rocks are being thrown toward seagulls? If she wasn’t paying attention, shame on her. Most teens can be left along on the beach to do as they please, but if she is going to use Autism as a reasoning behind his behavior, she should be prepared to be judged for not being attentive enough to her kid who clearly has some sort of violent tendencies. Those tendencies may not be under his control, but they should be under hers. If she DID see him throwing rocks, why didn’t she stop him? Clearly, that is not something anyone should do, and giving him a pass because he has Autism is unfair, unless of course his Autism is extremely severe, however, from the short video, I didn’t see extreme behavior issues from this teen. Who knows?
One thing you don’t do is send a mob of your family members on Facebook to make up lies and stories about the person who upset you. It doesn’t help your side of the story when you act this way in public, and on social media. It opens you and your family up to scrutiny.
Someone must have called her white trash and then deleted their comment. However, I can’t blame the person. This is the cousin, she was in the comment section acting like a ratchet and defending his behavior by saying it was “just a seagull” and diminishing the violent act, no bueno. This is the reason why your family is being targeted.
I find that hard to believe. This dude sounded so angry in his video. I can’t imagine he was also trying to harm seagulls and then got upset when someone else was doing it so he recorded them? Makes no sense. More accusations to take the heat off of what really happened.
Because I know I trust chicks whose lips are permanently stuck in duckface mode.
Yup, she went full caps-lock. This is another reason why your family is being targeted. You are accusing this man of being a pedophile because he simply started recording the mother after she became irate. That is a SERIOUS accusation, and the rumors you spread in the comment section were found to be untrue. I ran his name through the system, definitely not a pedophile and convicted sex offender that you and your family accused him of being. Again, if it was done on accident, why wasn’t the mother watching what he was doing? That could have avoided this whole situation. It’s parenting 101 – pay less attention to selfies and Facebook, more attention to your children, especially if they are special needs with behavior issues.
You know what confuses me about all of this? They clearly stated he has Autism. So, my conclusion is that they want his behavior of throwing rocks not to be frowned upon because of it, Okay I get it. Wait though, wasn’t it an accident? Why bring up his Autism if his intentions were honest and innocent in nature?
When people use the, “other parents are doing a worse job” excuse, it pisses me off. Just because there are parents out there who are horrible, doesn’t mean you should reach for mediocre. What an uneducated mentality.
Crazy cousin number two:
Looks innocent enough…
Again, wasn’t his act of throwing rocks an innocent activity? Why are you mentioning his “disorder” if what he was doing was innocent? That would only be a concern if his behavior was violent, which it was. Also, just because he didn’t kill the bird doesn’t make it okay. Can I break someones arm and then say, “but did you die?” and get away with it? I wish………..
Mom chimes in:
I guess it’s only a mistake if you get caught. Not once did I hear her mention it was a mistake or how her son has Autism in the video. She was concerned because she was being recorded. I understand, I would have the same concern, but I’m a mother and will certainly make sure that if I’m being recorded, I make it LOUD AND CLEAR that it was an accident and my kid is on the spectrum. Seems to me these responses and excuses are coming after she has been “internet famous” as stated by Peter.
Wait, he called your kid a retard? How convenient. I think you mentioned his Autism and then want to say this man is using such an awful word like “retard” to describe your son because you know, the feelz. It will make people feel bad for you, and side with you. So, this man threatened harm to your minor child and you didn’t call the police? You packed your stuff and just left? Then you found his post on Facebook, and you still didn’t call the police? Yeah… I believe it.
You’re right, God doesn’t sleep. He watches everything we do everyday. Let’s not use God here lady, please don’t go the self righteous route when you acted like an insane person on the beach in front of your child who you allege has Autism. I have friends with children on the spectrum, they will not act that way in public in front of their child, because their child is sensitive to that type of stuff. The fact that you blew your gasket so quickly… makes me wonder.
You should never yell at your kids in front of people, ever. You should discipline them, though. Lead by example and show the world and other parents how it’s done right. Don’t turn into a New Jersey housewife and act nuts. If you were so worried about yelling and how that effected your son, why did you act the way that you did? I don’t think you have thought this through.
Here is one of her friends, making up a complete lie about the man who recorded the video… Because, you know that’s going to make their story so much more believable:
I would post things from his Facebook, but he isn’t worth that amount of time.
Unreal. They are doing the typical damage control and turning Peter’s story around to make him look like the bad guy. All he did was scold someone who was hurting an innocent creature because the kids mother was too preoccupied to pay attention to her children. So, now he gets accused of being a fucking pedophile and convicted sex offender? HELLO! He is NOT a sex offender. His name is NOT on the list. Your lies are easily discovered by a quick and simply google search. If you go to this guys page, you can see that they are posting Peter’s address and pictures of his house…….. I think if you’re trying to paint a picture of innocence, the last thing you should do is threaten someones safety online when all they did was try to right a wrong, but that’s just me. I won’t post the screenshot of the threat, I don’t think it’s fair that his home address and location is listed for everyone to see because of this situation. I won’t help in this witch hunt. Peter, if you’re reading this, I have screenshots, hit me up and I will send them.
While this blog is way too long for my style of writing, I couldn’t leave out information or thoughts that I felt deserved to be here. The bottom line is, parents who raise a special needs child have it rough. They are constantly judged without people knowing the true struggle it is to raise a special needs kid. It’s a fact that a kid who is on the spectrum needs to be handled uniquely, they view the world differently, and the more we understand that, the less people judge.
However, none of that was clear to this gentlemen at the time he was recording. I somehow feel that if she would have said that to Peter, he would have been a little more understanding. I’m not sticking up for this mother and her behavior at all, I’m just saying this could have been avoided if she acted like a mother instead of a hot head. Learn to pick your battles. This could have been avoided, but now here we are… You will be reading this blog and telling me I’m some bitch who has no compassion for kids with special needs; you couldn’t be more wrong. I have no compassion for parents who use that as an excuse for their lack luster parenting.
Going full ratchet on Facebook is never a good idea. Everyone is watching.
We urge you to support the Turtleboy Sponsors by doing business with them. Without them none of this is possible. Click on any of them to check out their sites or Facebook pages.